If you
have read my previous blog about elephants, you will know how I
witnessed a cow elephant try in vain to save calves of the herd, even
though they weren't her offspring! Elephants have been seen stopping
at the bones of long-dead elephants to fondle and caress them as if they
were paying their respects to long lost family and friends: this is
surely empathy.
I think
the thing that makes us so different from other animals is risk. We
are the only species that will take a risk just for fun. We are
willing to put our lives and the lives of others that we love and
care about at risk, just for a thrill! How many cars full of
passengers have you seen hurtling down a road at full speed in bad
weather? No other animal would climb a mountain in atrocious weather
conditions, risking their life just to reach the top, with no gain,
no,food, not for safety, but just for the hell of it.
I know
people who claim that they like to play it safe, with no risk, just a
quiet life. These people smoke and drink far to much, they eat food
that puts lots of weight on them and they sit around with as little
exercise as possible. I think I would rather take my chances with a
mountain! They know the health risks involved with their lifestyle
but they still pursue the lifestyle.
I know
people that will bet their whole belongings on the turn of a card,
while others will risk the love and respect of their families just
for a chance of a quick sexual encounter with someone they don't even
care about. Humans are driven by risk. We love to gamble, whereas animals
don't do this. Some animals will take a risk, but only when they are
starving, or when they have no other option, take a chance or certain
death!
Maybe I
have got this all wrong, maybe it's not the risk we like, but the
boredom that we hate? What if it's actually boredom that makes people
take the chances that they take? I have to admit that potholing or
mountain climbing doesn't appeal to me - it's too slow and arduous. I do like speed though, but I find roller-coasters quite boring,
because I feel the risk has been removed. I have multiple scars and
broken bones to show for my love of stupid risks. I thought that I
would grow out of it but no, I still like taking a chance on something
that could go wrong. I need the thrill, and I get bored easy. I have
written before how my wife claims that I'm a ten year old boy trapped
in a middle aged body. But this is not true. I would do absolutely
anything for a dare when I was ten. I don't do dares now!
I think
my main problem is the total disregard for health and safety issues.
When I worked on the building sites many years ago, health and safety
wasn't practised as it is nowadays. I remember putting a roof on a
house, while balancing on four milk crates on top of a scaffolding
board thirty feet in the air. I still had to stand on my tiptoes to
reach the ridge. The only reason I didn't add another milk crate was
because I couldn't find one. But I wouldn't call this a risk (though I would
call it stupid) because I didn't feel that it was unsafe or that I
would come to any harm if I fell because there was so many things
that would have broken my fall.
It was
quite common for me to jump from a roof into piles of sand at the
time. And in those days you just accepted that things went wrong on
the sites and sometimes people got hurt. I think you can only claim
that someone is taking a risk if they are aware of the dangers, or if
they feel there is a danger.
But
bravery is another matter all together. I'm not very brave at all. I
have worked with lots of young people who have suffered relentless
bullying, and some have decided to make a stand: this is very brave.
To face
up to a problem and meet it head on even, though every fibre of your
body tells you to run, is very brave. I have never been bullied, I'm
too stupid to bully mentally and too big and aggressive to bully
physically. I like fighting, it's my sport - not in the street, but in a
ring. So I have never had to endure the fear that these people have
endured on a daily basis. To decide that enough is enough and change
their situation takes courage, and sometimes a risk as well.
I think
the only risk that I shall take tomorrow is to go out without a coat. In Britain, this is very risky indeed!